Match
GENERAL OBSERVATIONS...
I have an education, all my teeth, read books without pictures, watch movies with subtitles, can maintain conversations on many topics and don't consider Taco Bell an ethnic food.
Over two years have passed since my last relationship with my partner of 10 years, and I'm ready for another long term relationship with someone I can enjoy walking along the same path with. I'm not perfect, and know you aren't either, but I do know how to be a damn good partner and a great friend. I'm rooted in - and guided by - well-formed basic core values, have a strong moral compass, am intellectually curious, politically astute, an active listener, healthy, selfless, self-aware, enjoy life, and know how to share it with someone else. Who cares if the glass is half full or half empty? The point is that it is refillable.
MORE ABOUT ME...
1 - Cuban, single, available, and looking for more than a hookup.
2 - Gay, but that's likely the least interesting thing about me.
3 - Confident, loyal, honorable, genuine, affectionate, passionate, mature, courteous, reliable, DDF, masculine and athletic. Oh, and I often find dog treats in my pockets.
4 - Independent, down-to-earth, well-balanced, low-maintenance, and drama-free; not looking to be “completed” as I’m fine just how I am, but it would be nice to find someone that compliments me.
5 - ENFJ, if you follow those types of tests.
6 - Dedicated, determined, career-focused technology professional, with a knack for making challenging concepts seem simple, while not letting my day job define who I am.
7 - Equally at ease in a tux, a boardroom, a beach, a gym, or a kitchen.
8 - Know how to prioritize people in my life, understand that it may not always be sunny and bright, and know how to take turns holding an umbrella.
9 - Recognize that the mark of a gentleman is not that you are better than anyone else; it is that you are better than your previous self.
10 - Never give someone the opportunity to waste my time twice.
MORE ABOUT THE GUY I'M LOOKING FOR...
1 - Single, available, and looking for more than a hookup.
2 - Gay - not Bi, not “questioning”, not "curious", and definitely not “experimenting”.
3 - Know who you are and how to take care of yourself, are self-confident, have a good EQ/EI, are relaxed, strong, DDF, and believe in monogamy.
4 - Know how to communicate, have a life you enjoy, a path to which you're committed, a passion, a brain, and a sense of humor.
5 - Don’t follow those silly MBTI tests.
6 - Have a job, are inquisitive about science and the world around you, are mentally stimulating, enjoy intellectual conversations, don’t sweat the small stuff, and know how to let go.
7 - Know when to be serious, enjoy sarcasm, have a sense of humor, and know how to kick back, have fun, and relax.
8 - Don’t treat people in your life like options.
9 - Don't judge anyone’s story, by the chapter you walked in on.
10 - Not a pretender, or a game player, unless you are talking about Milton Bradley games that can be packed up in a box, and put up on a shelf after some competitive play!
DOES ANY OF THIS STRIKE A CHORD?
Then why not take a chance, invest less than a minute of your time, say "Hola" and get the conversation started?
Let's meet up, jump in the car, choose a playlist and take a day trip. Let's go to a new restaurant. Let's go see a band or play. Let’s go on a hike with the dogs. Let's share the couch on a Sunday night and watch HBO. Lets learn more about each other.
You can't get there from here, without taking the chance (risk?) and emailing me. The only thing you have to lose is the opportunity to meet another regular guy, and possibly make a friend.
